Jason posted an update 1 year ago
Hey dads. I just joined the group. I have more of a question about marriage than about fatherhood. We have been married for 7 years. She has no intimacy AT ALL. I do a great deal around the house and in the house. I drop the kids off at school, pick them up, cook dinner and make the occasional grocery run. Baths and diapers as well. So I know it isn’t because she’s exhausted from doing everything in the home. But when I try to get close, I just get shut down or I get the “ do we really have to tonight”. And I lose what ever hope I had after that. She will go weeks without laying a hand on me other than a kiss goodnight. We hire babysitters and have date nights and all that jazz. She could seriously go months without sex. I start to get a little irritable after a week. It’s to the point my mind wonders if there’s another guy. I’ve been direct with her that this bothers me and she just says she don’t know what’s wrong. She doesn’t go out with the girls or anything like that but she does go to the park on her lunch breaks. Any advice fellas? I know I’m not the only one going through this.